Did U have sex with her yet. Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos.
Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. Keep the relationship casual. What a joke for an archaeologist. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction.
Best to all of you, and may God Fate help us all. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. So that's something I can't say is good or bad.
Im a 19 year old female who is pre med at a university right now. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. Sometimes not even a quick text most of the time. I think we date twice a year.