Yes, it is bad. It is an act of faith. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack. I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture.
No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. I don't want to make a mistake by leaving everything I have going on for me for him.
But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. All I can say is, "WOW". I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. I am someone who loves quality time a lot. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage.