I follow a blogger who is a nurse and her stories are gut-wrenching. This question is for any person that could explain to me that why is it that I do not feel contruble that my fiance needs to see other patients nude if this is his line of wk. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either. And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face.
I was lucky with my TBM. Like you, I didn't want to stress him out by giving him some sort of ultimatum or demands. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. This broke my heart. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. You will always be second place. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age.
It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. That was my experience. Gem With Flaws Joined: While I do talk to my boyfriend everyday, it's usually not for long periods of time. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. This is right for me and for us.
If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo. I could never do it.