We were planning on doing it on memorial day weekend so we could get married on a sunday between graduation and residency but that is a Jewish holiday. He's in his second year of residency and we're talking about me leaving everything to get engaged and move up with him. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. And we are not bloody married yet. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them.
I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky.
I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. I don't want to sound like I hate what he does but it's really difficult to be flex parents every time. I kept thinking things would get better at some point, but they didn't. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. You might want to determine your level of willingness to put up with his demanding work schedule and to communicate with him about your needs and concerns.