Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. So that may be the end of it there. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. Affection will come and go based on our attitudes, and will not carry through the rough spots в married in the Church or outside. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. Joanna mentioned that our theology is rich with opportunities for second chances. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. Should I bare the pain of being separated from him Which will hurt a lotor do I carry on hoping one day it gets better.
Can someone put some sense in me. While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. But daytime game is the key. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard.
Sometimes I think he is the man who shouldn't have had a family but just a career too late for that now though. As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. Not to mention, he became angry and hostile towards me during the break up. Then an explanation of the nature of your soul and where it came from and where it's going. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. I miss him so much.
What a miserable state. We are indeed in two different places. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. Doctors want to be with their families and attend events but because of work they just can't. Life is suddenly wonderful, and you catch yourself smiling, humming, and happy all the time.