Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please. Right now, my husband is in his third and final year of an extremely draining and stressful fellowship. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest. After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been dating for this long.
What advice do you have for a newbie. Stick around on this sub. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this.
I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. I don't think so.
You will have to bring her down to reality. I would like to compliment the brave ladies for being the strong spouse and keeping the marriage moving forward. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists.