Even if he just has a weekend free, getting away, just teh two of us, helps so very much. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. I can't quite put my finger on it. Like Suha, I have also been married almost 28 years and have done pretty much everything myself for so, so long. The Church encourages you to use dating as an opportunity to show your respect not just for others, but for yourself.
My husband was definitely worth the heartache and suffering that I endured but I am grateful that he was able to see that our family was worth a change in lifestyle. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony.
I would never change my decision to marry him. Please don't add to that grandious ego. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. Oh, and perhaps you're thinking to yourself - that woman needs to talk to him. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. I'd at least insist that at 12 the kids can choose to disaffiliate. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity.
Almost everything is complicated. You'll take out the trash, coordinate all the home repairs, pay all the bills, do all the yard work and generally work your ass off until you're emotionally and physically drained. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. Listen to the still small voiceв.