The relationship never went anywhere but was always happy to help and he was very grateful. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. Facebook Email Twitter Print. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. I know it will get better over time.
The house is perfect, with nothing out of place. What you described, just being in each other's presence, sounds perfect. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution.
But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. I have days when I feel like I don't want to do this anymore, but then I go through old pictures and letters and to remind myself that we had it figured out once, and we can figure it out again. This is really a conversation you need to have with him. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does.
He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. Should I marry him. It was actually causing more of a rift than bringing us together. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. Can I add to this extremely old thread. I feel he thinks we cannot be two masters in this boat and if I am this ambituous we may never have time to have and be a family. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people.