And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. That is the million dollar question. My husband did his best to do the same though a medical career makes it a challenge. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
My children started a new school this year and up until last week, my husband couldn't have told you what time they started or where to drop them off. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. I am married to an amazing man and physician who cried when he told our 6 year old that he had to cancel on her classroom visit for the second time because he got called into work on his day off, again.
My husband is in his last year of residency. We also do not allow harassment of those who post about being victims of rape, or who state that they are contemplating suicide. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work. Indeed, it is the loneliness and the lack of time to have intimacy or feel connected with one another that scares me for our future. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness.
I've a,ready been a single parent once. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. If you like living on someone else's coat times, them by all means. Find things that will make good memories in years to come. I'd have plenty if we divorced. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. My husband was definitely worth the heartache and suffering that I endured but I am grateful that he was able to see that our family was worth a change in lifestyle. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. Now that my boyfriend and I are beginning to talk about a future together, though, I realize that I need to consider this question of marrying outside of the church very carefully.