If you really need me, you better believe I'm going to be scrambling to find others to cover my patients so I can leave, but it's going to take some time to get things straight at work first. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Honestly a lovely man but the sheer focus of time and attention has meant there is little if any left for me, I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes in comparison with some nights of 2 hours going on and on and on about work. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Now let me be shamefully honest: Also, I'll admit, dating a doctor was kind of exciting. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here.
Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. That's our best option. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. It CAN work, to be frank. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough.
This opens opportunities for all strong and successful masculine men to gain access to these women. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. I never pressure him to spend time with me. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me.
How do I help sustain and grow our communication under the circumstance. Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances. Don't put them through that either. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.