I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. I went to BYU. Start doing little things even when you are not there. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. I think we need to steer far away from medicine….
A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. Just ridiculous, what do they know. This was the biggest one for me. It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered.
Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. What is it like to become a doctor in your country. Do you and your girlfriend have any kind of plan for how you're going to manage your relationship while you're both in residency. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well.
My doctor husband also has a daughter from a previous marriage who he travels to see every other weekend. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв.