She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. Religious differences, however are real. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. Now for the family part We are different people in one big way, I am very extroverted and say whatever's on my mind and he's introverted and everything is very thought out and he likes alone time. I knew a Mormon girl who got rides from her Mormon friends for casual sex dates with men she met on Tinder.
I was in your same position years ago. God told me to marry my husband. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards.
Like Suha, I have also been married almost 28 years and have done pretty much everything myself for so, so long. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved.
I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Do you know his work hours, break time during work and where does he take break from work. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. But I don't know that he does the same for me. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now.