As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. I also know that whenever exceptions are made, there are reasons. I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work.
My life may not be as stressful as that of a medical resident or a doctor, but I do often spend upward of 70 - 80 hours per week working. Hello, my boyfriend is in his second year of residency for Emergency Medicine, and we live together. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps.
The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв. She started crying when I explained this to her. The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. I can completely relate to all the other doctor' s wives feelings and life experiences. You will have to bring her down to reality. Jesus might have seemed like a cute, imaginary playmate at first, but on some level I would have been expecting to help her get over it.
The fact that your guy came right out and said he didn't care what you thought and that we was going to spend his money and time the way he wanted indicates that he still thinks of himself as single. Be with a nice guy and a doctor who will not put himself or his love for money first or his ego first. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that.