We went from having sex several times a day on the weekends, to once a week. Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet. If I just kind of take things as they come, everyone is happier. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. I'd suggest the essays. I married a person, not a religion. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful.
Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple. If we can say them together, great; if not. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. Even selfish at times.
He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. I'm busier than many people my age, but not as much as he is. It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also.
Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. Lots of really thorough replies. Yes, I have considered alternatives. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice.