To not do residency and leave medicine behind. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. All the other stuffв is crap. As a matter of fact, you can begin here.
I am very understanding about it and I'm fine with retaining some independence, especially at this stage in dating. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you". And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. And I learned how freeing that is.
Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. His job prevents you much access to him. He wants things to be low key for now. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now.
Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on.