If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. Find someone who isn't part of a cult. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings.
Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. What a miserable state. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. I have my own profession and my own interests, and was definitely not pursuing a doctor for intimate partnership, but I quickly realized that my environment started seeing me as only girlfriend of Dr. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. They know that they are the best.
Don't spend money on somebody else' Wife. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. It takes the right personality and commitment on both sides. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. It's a foolish dream I suppose. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine.
Most of my female friends work and their husbands don't work weekends so it is hard to have people to hang with. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. You have to be willing to share him with his education process. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you.