You join the LDS Church. And we are not bloody married yet. And to be fair, he always does contact me to see each other eventually So while some of his behavior makes me question stuff, other times I feel like this is just a phase due to his residency and maybe this is worth hanging on for down the road. Honestly I'd let things keep going. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought. Do what feels right. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor.
I am struggling to find an answer to this question for several reasons. I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. Don't spend money on somebody else' Wife. Avoid the topic when you can, it's not something that'll be pretty unless handled in a calm discussion which Well, people as a whole tend to be pretty immature with big topics. March 18, Run for the hills. I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life.
I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. I've been in a similar situation before. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. In my experience discussing my fears with my husband has at times lead to arguing esp. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join.
Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. You need to disabuse them of this notion. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. Why am I still with him. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members.