You will have to bring her down to reality. As for deciding to marry someone who is not mormon, here is how I made the decision. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. I just feel relieved that I'm not the only one feeling like this. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome.
Oh well, at least now I know. And I learned how freeing that is. It does kick your butt!. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material.
I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. We've been together since he started medical school. We learn sooooooo much from each other. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage.
If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction. Trust me, though--you will. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. I worked my butt off and supported our family through internship, residency and two fellowships always looking forward to the day when he would finally be in practice and things would get 'easier". As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. But you will benefit if you can help him maintain his strength. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world.