I am exhausted from giving so much of me and I never got much back. It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. I feel unwanted most of the time but I know he tries to make time. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. We learn sooooooo much from each other.
But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. As more and more people marry out of their faith, the subject of interfaith marriage will become more and more important. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. You join the LDS Church. Adding an interfaith element means you have many more adjustments to make. That being sais, just be honest.
Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. And to clarify, what I mean by physical demand is something that requires energy I don't have, like having sex or going for a walk. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months.
I read through a few of the LDS. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them.