We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy. Apr 4, 0. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. I can't quite put my finger on it. Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today.
I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. Ladies, doctor's are definitely not all they're cracked up to be. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. I used to be religious when I was a kid. His energy is used on patients and luckily his son. And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. Should I just end it if the loneliness bothers me already.
Try a variety of dates. At the end of the day, nothing I say or do can help him see this. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. You never walks you'll never know. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in.
If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. The sad part is that he does not understand what I go through or if I complain or try to make him understand about what's going on at home or my feelings. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. Notify me of new comments via email.