He also wants to have kids soon since I am already The dilemma I have now is: I do not know how would our relationship shape up, after marriage, assuming everything goes fine. I'll give him a chance to fix it by talking to him about it, but the more that I think about how he has treated me the more I just feel ready to check out of the whole situation. Residents work an insane amount of hours. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. I married a person, not a religion.
I say to you, decisions determine destiny. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. I keep the positive thought that it will get better. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office.
It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. I know this post is kind of all over the place but I had to get it out I Here's to hoping that this coming weekend he isn't on call, doesn't have to fill in, doesn't have a million charts to finish, and doesn't have any crazy medical emergencies!!. Same goes for holidays-flip a coin. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. Our first Christmas married I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated.
I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. Who hit on them or the other way round. I don't know what to do. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation. No one could compare to the man I married. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians.