You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. Let her go right now then. Learned by me in time and tears. Had to switch to more flexible job. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself.
For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made. And there's a story I'm going to look again for too. Do you want to be married in the temple.
All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody.
I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. Dating in your teenage years will help you learn the kinds of things you value in another person. Can someone put some sense in me.