I know he loves me with all of his heart. I married my husband 11 years ago, when he was an undergrad student. Put that in perspective before you try to equate your struggle to his. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. Where do you find Mormon girls. Eventually it turned into a sour argument.
In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. If I'm focused on something like reading a textbook, or working on some problem then I might still think of him vaguely but I'm not going to whip out my phone or go and see himI'm busy.
Would I like to have him by my side. Am I ready for this. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb.
He just started studying for the boards. It's up to you to decide whether or not this is someone worth waiting for. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do. I would never convert.