Anyone with experience dating a doctor or another insanely busy person. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I dated many LDS guys before him. This is something I see on an everyday basis.
I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. The important thing is doing it together. We seem to be one two different planets communication in two different languages. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. That response made her very happy.
And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today.
Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such.