I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. Many Mormon girls place the cart before the horse.
Once his residency is over, you'll have more time together, but that's going to be a while from now. I was so incredibly supportive of him and his career. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. We've been dating two plus years, and we find a key is taking vacations. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to.
I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I'm approaching my 40th birthday and realizing, if anything happens, I will have to plan it myself. All i want to do it cry reading all of these posts.
I was going to be alone in the marrige working hard and planning for the two of us whiles my wife's emotions and energy was spent on other people. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. In five short days. Sometimes not even a quick text most of the time. To Anonymous, Your comment also left me heartbroken. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. It's winter here and I figured she was layering for warmth. See where it goes. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. He told me that the ER doesn't share and I'm pretty much the mistress to the hospital.