There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. This question is for any person that could explain to me that why is it that I do not feel contruble that my fiance needs to see other patients nude if this is his line of wk. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on.
There are two ways to go about this. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. What advice do you have for a newbie. I am so beyond afraid of what lies ahead in terms of residency; the loneliness, missing out on years of family experiences together, raising two kids by myself we have a 1. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward.
As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. I have plenty to do but I do it alone. I'd like to reiterate, though, that sheer physical exhaustion isn't as much of a problem for me as it might be for a med student or a doctor, so he might be deserving of the benefit of doubt if he doesn't keep in touch regularly. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. However, for me, there have been some perks too. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you.
If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom.