I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. That's why I was hoping to hear from someone dating or married to a doctor. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. This can make it harder for you two to do things together.
Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. That is the million dollar question. She converts to your religion. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. Rawkcuf, maybe your comment is like your name and intended backwards, but what do you mean by differences between races. Sadly, my ward shuns us. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. Of course, your parents will care most. Now a basic overview of the gospel.
Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. It is an act of faith. Signs of Male Attraction: Reading a Man's Body Language. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. And of course, everyone has a different experience. He could come home from trips and I was too worn out to fake the good cheer. God knows the big picture.
I have been married with a doc for 4 years, we have been moving every year due to his fellowship, residency and so on, i have been losing job opportinities and living with no families,friends around due to his career. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. And yet when retirement comes up in the conversation, its a definite "not while I have the skills "- 75 maybe. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone. The greatest gift you can give to support: When they want a break, they will ask you and be ready and rejuvenated after. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple.