Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy. But when I am doing homework or studying, he's usually at my side trying to get my attention or laying on me or otherwise whining that I'm not paying enough attention to him. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. My wife and her family are a good example of this. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. He isn't always around for holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me.
We Finally spent a week alone together for our anniversary and it was glorious. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way.
If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. Hi, I am not a doctor's wife. Props to your sister. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. I wish you the best of luck. I am married to an ER doc and agree that having your own life, being independent, and not going into the relationship with any preconceived notions is what makes it work for us.
If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. Amasa enjoys art, music, and traveling. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. They believe that the body is a temple that needs to be worshiped, and that inner beauty is more important. Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on.