Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. The standard principles of day game apply. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. I do realize he may want me to be not so ambituous which I am. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband.
For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. In response to the anonymous comment posted April 3, I am not married but have been dating a medical student for about four years, he is in his second year of residency and it has honestly been difficult because when he graduated medical school he had to move five hours away to start his residency program so we travel back and forth and our relationship is serious but im scared that things will never get better as far as his busy schedule, even when im there to visit he is on call and im basically on a mini vacation by myself. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career.
In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy. I won't break his heart not after all the faith he has in me. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.
Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon". I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. Submit a new link. And everyone always asks why you are out and about alone. The church can be a very cruel place for single people.