She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. I know how long his residency lasts. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing.
Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now. I won't lie, there are times I have said to myself "what am I doing living like this. I read through a few of the LDS. But, when you're married to a doctor, know that doctors don't sacrifice for their marriages. This sub is a great place to do that. Lots of good hearty healthy food. Keep things going and see what happens.
I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon.
Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. I'm surprised you don't seem to know how long his residency will last. I never thought fellowship would be worse than residency and boy was I wrong. I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. Good luck with her, and good life to you.