I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. What am I getting myself into. Your husbands love you, and love that you are able to do what they cannot. However, I'm going to show him your post tonight and hopefully he will agree that it's worth a try. What I meant was I'm wondering if it will get noticeably easier in terms of his schedule in the next few years and right after he finishes, or if it will always feel like this when it comes to being with someone in his profession. I chose to get married and move across the state to live with my husband and left my job, family and friends and let me tell you, it's been tremendously difficult to meet new friends in the new town.
She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. My job starts soon and in January I get started on my masters degree at a new school. By exactly how much ESPN gets watched in the course of a man-day. Plus I just quit my medical interpreting job last month. Joanna mentioned that our theology is rich with opportunities for second chances.
All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. This helps us out a lot, we dont feel like we are missing parts of each others day and I dont keep him up all night talking. Your post could have been written by me, in August. His whole family joined after he did. For instance, I am okay with the us not seeing each other very often part. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. Me doing everything around the house, running all errands, and working full time doesn't compete with the high stakes work he does and he doesn't understand how hard I am working also because of his job.
I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. If you're just shaken up and in need of a few stitches and work is busy, that means instead of rushing to your side immediately I might wait until my shift ends before showing up with takeout and flowers to look after you. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. I still cry every night for himbecause I love himprobably always will. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do. That was my experience.