You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. We're giving it to you straight because we hope to help you avoid the heartache many of us have experience due to the harmful teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes. And if he loves you as much as you love him. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. And if he loves you as much as you love him.
I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. That grad student better be working that hard if he or she wants to make it. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. I feel sorry for you, not because your husbands are working so hard but because you gave up your own lives. I am not one to be interest with his paycheck, since i am accountant myself. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down.
I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes. Is this a red flag or are we both just being stubborn.
Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. And if he loves you as much as you love him.