The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. You I think are ok with that. I find that one of the most important things is to make sure you have a support system, whether they are other doc wives, family or friends. This has led to more arguments than ever before and I feel so alone This is all very helpful. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. He knows that is a possibility. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband.
It CAN work, to be frank. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. She started crying when I explained this to her. On your own dime. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. We have a happy marriage. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended.
Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. But can't he send me a text just once a day or every few days to let me know he's thinking of me. Now 13 years later, my son is a teenager. And no I would not pressure them to convert but as a Latter-day Saint I would pray for them to convert as I do for many people I know and love. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. It's up to you to decide whether or not this is someone worth waiting for.
It was a complete turn around from what I'd previously seen from her but obviously it was something she'd been thinking about. Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality. I expected to find this sisterhood of wives that would comfort, uplift, and laugh with one another. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. I do get the odd text but now with 3 weeks to his exam, calls are out of the question. I have done it many times and the repercussions are that they treat me very poorly, but th.